Nan Goldin’s Ballad of Sexual Dependency series captures moments of revelry and hardships in the artist’s bohemian community. This photograph shows Goldin’s friends eating cake and having a lively conversation. Sharing food can be an act of nurturing loved ones as a literal and emotional exchange of sweetness. Goldin’s friend group—which includes many queer individuals—is united in their shared enjoyment of cake and one another’s company, illustrating the importance of “chosen families” in queer communities. For individuals who might be ostracized by biological relatives for their sexual orientation, chosen families provided a sense of belonging and mutual support.
An emblem of their enjoyment, the sugary confection elicits joy at a time when a new era of gay liberation movements was burgeoning. This image of sharing cake reminds us of the value of familial bonds—whether biological or chosen.